Frederica.com - Essays - Unpublishedhttp://www.frederica.com/writings/Essays, commentaries, movie reviews, Q&A, columns, etc...en-US2013-05-23T01:03:14ZSquarespace V5 Site Server v5.13.159 (http://www.squarespace.com)How to Make a Twirly Dresshttp://www.frederica.com/writings/how-to-make-a-twirly-dress.htmlFrederica2010-01-17T19:27:56ZMarriage and Family Odds & Ends UnpublishedSynesthesiahttp://www.frederica.com/writings/synesthesia.htmlFrederica2007-02-02T15:21:15ZUnpublished[Unpublished, Feb 2, 2007]

You know the sequence in “Fantasia,” that accompanies a symphony with colors, lights, and shapes that “embody” the music? That’s called synesthesia — mixing two senses, so that a violin passage “sounds like” a series of yellow dashes on a black background.

Some people have more of an instinctive capacity for synesthesia than others, and the most common way for it to manifest is to associate colors with letters and numbers. I have this kind of synesthesia.

]]>Three Kinds of Childhood Innocencehttp://www.frederica.com/writings/three-kinds-of-childhood-innocence.htmlFrederica2006-01-07T19:41:55ZMarriage and Family The Culture Unpublished[Unpublished; email to a friend, January 7, 2006]

There are three things people mean when they talk of childhood innocence: vulnerability, ignorance, and moral purity. (I touched on this in my First Things piece on “Against Eternal Youth,” but didn’t have room to get into it fully.)

A child's (1) vulnerability ought to stir us; we want to protect them physically and emotionally. That's one of our most urgent drives. But (3) moral purity is a chimera; children are born completely selfish, and slowly and painfully learn to make room for others in their lives.]]>The Passion of the Christhttp://www.frederica.com/writings/the-passion-of-the-christ.htmlFrederica2004-03-08T18:58:21ZMovie Reviews Unpublished[Unpublished, posted to mailing list March 8, 2004]

I haven't written a public review of "The Passion" because my feelings are so mixed. I am so glad for all the people who are having their faith strengthened and renewed, or even finding faith for the first time. I don't want to puncture that. A friend at my church saw it once, wanted to see it a second time, then read a negative review ("the characters were flat", etc). She decided not to see it again. That's sad.

When people get disappointed with the film I think it has to do with what Coleridge called the "willing suspension of disbelief."

]]>Stem Cellshttp://www.frederica.com/writings/stem-cells.htmlFrederica2003-12-16T19:21:57ZNPR Commentaries Pro-Life Unpublished[recorded for NPR "Morning Edition" December 2003; postponed to wait for a "news hook," eventually lost in a system crash]

When reports of human cloning first began appearing in the news, a lot of us had the initial reaction, "You're kidding, right?" They weren't kidding. This bizarre field of medical research is rarin' to go. We don't have much time to consider the question: should it?

The idea of a full-grown human clone is creepy enough, but what about cloning for medical purposes--making an embryo with a patient's cells, then killing it to use in the patient's treatment? Even here we know instinctively that something's wrong. We know it isn't right to mix up a baby in a test tube and then, when it starts growing, chop it up for medicine. It isn't right to make medicine out of people.]]>About Face, Christian Soldiershttp://www.frederica.com/writings/about-face-christian-soldiers.htmlFrederica2003-03-16T21:26:24ZChristian Life The Culture Unpublished
I subscribe to a newsweekly magazine. One week the cover story is about Buddhists. I read the article. It is about spirituality.

Another week the cover story is about students of the Kaballah. I read the article. It is about spirituality.

Another week the cover story is about Christians. I read the article. It is about politics.]]>Pizza Troublehttp://www.frederica.com/writings/pizza-trouble.htmlFrederica2003-03-16T21:18:49ZHumor Unpublished
I'm a pastor's wife, mom of three, short, plump and southern, so people are generally surprised to hear that I was once under investigation by the FBI for making death threats on behalf of the Mafia.

It could happen to anyone, really.

One night we were having dinner with a couple in our congregation, Bob and Cathy, while our combined five kids played downstairs in the rec room. My husband's gingery Chinese stirfry was disappearing fast, and Cathy's special Chocolate Overload cake was waiting in the kitchen.]]>First-time Parent Memohttp://www.frederica.com/writings/first-time-parent-memo.htmlFrederica2000-06-16T20:14:59ZHumor Marriage and Family Unpublished
MEMO

To: David
From: Mom & Dad, Inc.
Re: Offspring

Congratulations! Mom & Dad, Inc., are pleased to hear that you and Marcella have had a baby. Good work. Though a new baby is a demanding project (for further reference, see top end, bottom end, intermediate regions, etc.) we anticipate that this investment of time and effort will be as rewarding to you as similar endeavors have been to us (see family scrapbooks).

While the project has been labor-intensive so far, with Marcella even pulling a couple of all-nighters there at the end,]]>Why the Bathroom Walls are Lumpyhttp://www.frederica.com/writings/why-the-bathroom-walls-are-lumpy.htmlFrederica1998-05-16T20:41:00ZHumor Unpublished
Come on in! Just have a seat on the sofa, and my husband will be in in a minute with some coffee. Where’s the bathroom? Ah, better have a seat first. I need to explain something. I should tell you why the walls are lumpy.

Last summer I was looking at that paneling—well, actually, I guess it really began back when we bought the house, a few years ago—no, to tell the truth—

It all started when I was about six, and built a fort of sofa cushions on the living room floor.]]>Mosh Pit Mannershttp://www.frederica.com/writings/mosh-pit-manners.htmlFrederica1996-06-21T20:07:41ZHumor NPR Commentaries Unpublished[Recorded for NPR "All Things Considered," June 21, 1996; never aired]

Thirty years ago, I was sitting in a stadium screaming at the Beatles and throwing jelly beans. We’d heard that was George’s favorite, so we were doing our best to pelt him. I screamed at Herman's Hermits, too, freaked out with Frank Zappa, and then it was the Stones.

But it had been a long time since I'd been to a rock concert. Recently I piled my teenage kids and a couple of their friends into the station wagon and went to hear one of their favorite bands‑‑a band I've overheard enough to enjoy myself.

]]>The Wiedros in Winterhttp://www.frederica.com/writings/the-wiedros-in-winter.htmlFrederica1995-02-16T21:30:37ZHumor Marriage and Family Unpublished
Long winter evenings have always challenged families; the Hagley Museum in Wilmington, Delaware recently hosted an afternoon of "19th century winter pastimes…once-popular parlor games challenging the mind or the memory." For some readers, early March will bring more snowstorms, and a list of old parlor games sounds appealing.

But who needs outmoded forms of entertainment, when you can keep jolly the Wiedro way? "The Wiedros" became our family alias when daughter Megan, attempting to enter the surname "Weirdo" on a computer questionaire at Disneyworld, logged something like "Wiedr O" instead. On our last Wiedro outing we visited museums in Delaware’s Brandywine Valley, then spent abed-and-breakfast evening, free from all electronic diversions. Here are the pastimes taht helped pass our time—some old familiars, some invented on the spot. The first is a guiding principle:

1. Drive it into the ground. Don’t let a promising topic go until it’s exhausted.]]>Grandaddy's Obstetricshttp://www.frederica.com/writings/grandaddys-obstetrics.htmlFrederica1986-08-11T20:36:12ZMarriage and Family Unpublished[Unpublished; written Summer 1986]

My grandfather lived to be ninety-four, and in many ways he was like a birch tree: small but springy and bright, with light filling his blue eyes. For over 60 years he signed his name George Frederick Oetjen, M.D. and (although he told his daughters that “M.D.” really stood for “My Daddy”) being a doctor was the joy of his life.

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